This New Years’ Eve, host a Burning Bowl Ceremony; out with the old and in with the new!  The intention; rid yourself of fear, negativity & stagnation.  Subsequently manifest abundance and happiness in the New Year.  This is a great party activity and extremely powerful in manifesting your reality.  Be sure to have a secure […]

With pleasure I share some thoughts that emerged from my gray matter this evening:    “Focusing on the distractions as if they were what is the most important, shall impede one’s journey forward to self fulfillment and finding the essence of one’s soul.” “The intensity of one’s desire to foster change will determine the degree […]

When one is in the closet, it can be a very lonely place.  I have a t-shirt that says “closets are for clothes” regaled in bright rainbow colors.  I want to relate how this t-shirt played a role in my coming out. I was at a point where I had told many of my closer […]

Bisexuality: an attraction toward both men and women.  Some people think that this attraction is 50-50 toward both men and women.  But there are many others who identify as bisexual but like women more.  Or like men more.   Among women, bisexuality is a lot more accepted in our society.  The reason?  Straight men have the […]

“Love goes with me wherever I go.” This is LESSON 41 in my A Course In Miracles workbook; a truth that has brought me great freedom and strength.  I can face the world with the knowledge there is nothing I cannot do.  I have joy in my heart and my words reflect the passion in […]

While contemplating what I was going to write for my column, I bounced back and forth between various topics.  After some thought and reflection, I realized that I haven’t really focused on my coming out story. I was a sensitive, caring young child but deep down I was frustrated about something hidden inside myself.  I […]

“We must, in faith, put use this trust; our purpose here is but to live, not reinvent that which exists.  Pursuit of all beyond is such a waste of time; delight in “now”.  Forsake this life; it’s yours to do, but know what all is offered you.  Of man True Love is greatest all… be […]

It’s the Holiday season and there’s one thing that occurs more at this time of year, than at any other time.  And I’m not talking about shopping.  HUGS! What is it about giving and receiving a Hug that is so special?  I’m not talking about the kind of hug that happens with expectations of more.  […]

“Patience is a virtue” so goes the old adage!  We have heard this many times from our parents, teachers and religious leaders.  Most times I do subscribe to this virtuous trait but there are times when doing so is very trying.  My patience does wear thin at times.  I must remind myself to breathe and […]

Have you ever been so depressed you didn’t want to get out of bed in the morning?  I’ve been there… it’s not a good place to be.  In fact, it was the worst experience of my life; my darkest of nights seemed eternal.  I lost faith; in life, in myself, in love.  I asked God; […]