Today, I learned yet another lesson about unconditional love.  As we yearn to connect with other people, we quickly fall into fear. We worry about being judged and admired.  Let’s add others’ expectations; are you being attentive and providing them with enough of what they feel they are lacking?  Rest assured if you aren’t, they […]

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to be grateful for the opportunity to be alive. Rob never took his life for granted.  He cherished every moment to the very end. The last time I saw Rob, he came to visit me in a dream.  He was leaning against a wall; arms crossed, head slightly tilted, looking […]

Relationships are our greatest gift.  As we struggle to understand love and the true meaning of life, our relationships come forth as abundant opportunities to evolve. Have you ever asked God, or Love, or the Universe to show you the truth? ~ the meaning of life? ~ the meaning of love?  I have; many times.  […]

When my brother Rob, contracted the HIV virus at the age of 20 he was angry.  He should have been planning his future; instead, he received a death sentence.  Back then, it was a 10 year plan before full blown AIDS took grasp, followed by certain, agonizing death.  He vowed to do as much living […]

In order to keep it, you have to give it away.  This statement is in direct opposition to the thinking of the world.  How can you have something, if you give it away?  Material possessions come and go, however, the thought you hold about yourself remains.  The same holds true for non material resources such […]

“Life carries with it creative energy.  Each one, whole, whose lives are absolute at conception, creates in a world of misconception and illusion.  We were not alone in this manifest creation.  Nor was it our collective intention but surely we cannot resist but to breathe.  Consciously or passively, our destiny is fulfilled.  All that is […]

Six years ago today, October 21, 2004, my brother Rob took his life due to HIV and AIDS related complications.  He finally reached a point where he knew, if he waited much longer, the disease would immobilize him and he wouldn’t have the strength to go through with it.  The lesions in his brain were […]

We are all perfect, complete, and whole.  Why, then, do we feel depressed, sick, angry and separated?  Because we have forgotten Who we are.  How is that possible?  …Because we are surrounded by others who have also forgotten Who they are.  Here’s the kick; it’s up to you to help them remember, and in turn, […]

On September 22nd America suffered a loss.  It was not due to a terrorist attack or some natural phenomenon.  America lost one of its most valuable resources; a young man attending Rutgers University with a bright future ahead of him named Tyler Clementi.  Clementi jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge after he […]

Is there really such a thing as a “gay lifestyle?”  It is a phrase used over and over again by both those within and outside the LGBTQ community.  A “lifestyle” is the manner by which a person chooses to live their lives.  The key word is “choose.”  Do LGBTQ people choose their lifestyle?  It depends […]