While contemplating what I was going to write for my column, I bounced back and forth between various topics.  After some thought and reflection, I realized that I haven’t really focused on my coming out story. I was a sensitive, caring young child but deep down I was frustrated about something hidden inside myself.  I […]

“We must, in faith, put use this trust; our purpose here is but to live, not reinvent that which exists.  Pursuit of all beyond is such a waste of time; delight in “now”.  Forsake this life; it’s yours to do, but know what all is offered you.  Of man True Love is greatest all… be […]

It’s the Holiday season and there’s one thing that occurs more at this time of year, than at any other time.  And I’m not talking about shopping.  HUGS! What is it about giving and receiving a Hug that is so special?  I’m not talking about the kind of hug that happens with expectations of more.  […]

“Patience is a virtue” so goes the old adage!  We have heard this many times from our parents, teachers and religious leaders.  Most times I do subscribe to this virtuous trait but there are times when doing so is very trying.  My patience does wear thin at times.  I must remind myself to breathe and […]

Have you ever been so depressed you didn’t want to get out of bed in the morning?  I’ve been there… it’s not a good place to be.  In fact, it was the worst experience of my life; my darkest of nights seemed eternal.  I lost faith; in life, in myself, in love.  I asked God; […]

Today, I learned yet another lesson about unconditional love.  As we yearn to connect with other people, we quickly fall into fear. We worry about being judged and admired.  Let’s add others’ expectations; are you being attentive and providing them with enough of what they feel they are lacking?  Rest assured if you aren’t, they […]

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to be grateful for the opportunity to be alive. Rob never took his life for granted.  He cherished every moment to the very end. The last time I saw Rob, he came to visit me in a dream.  He was leaning against a wall; arms crossed, head slightly tilted, looking […]

Relationships are our greatest gift.  As we struggle to understand love and the true meaning of life, our relationships come forth as abundant opportunities to evolve. Have you ever asked God, or Love, or the Universe to show you the truth? ~ the meaning of life? ~ the meaning of love?  I have; many times.  […]

When my brother Rob, contracted the HIV virus at the age of 20 he was angry.  He should have been planning his future; instead, he received a death sentence.  Back then, it was a 10 year plan before full blown AIDS took grasp, followed by certain, agonizing death.  He vowed to do as much living […]

In order to keep it, you have to give it away.  This statement is in direct opposition to the thinking of the world.  How can you have something, if you give it away?  Material possessions come and go, however, the thought you hold about yourself remains.  The same holds true for non material resources such […]